I am sure you all have heard the hilarious v-mail messages that this guy left on a girl's answering machine. Sure it is hilarious, I had a good laugh about it, we all did. But I have to admit, its also really scary. Its really scary to think that there are actually men out there with zero respect towards women. What makes is even more scary? there's women out there willing to take it!!
I hate to be preachy, but please please please RESPECT YOURSELF. We all learn the hard way to do this. All of us will kiss a couple of frogs (okay, maybe more that a couple) before we find a prince, but learn when to exit.
You should never tolerate a man that does not treat you with respect. Here's a list of Red Flags Every Girl Should Not Ignore:
- Excessive questioning with a jealous undertone - See it as a sign of possessiveness.
- Tardiness - Is he always late? changes plans last minute?
- Needs to be in control - does he listen to you? does he ignore your requests?
- Rudeness - is he rude to service staff? is he respectful towards everyone?
- Alcohol/Drug Abuse - Does he need to get drunk to have fun? All.The.Time?
- Unwanted Sexual Advances - a man should know that no means NO.
-Wandering Eyes - Is he mentally and physically with you?
See a red flag? Drop it like its hot. I've learned (the hard way) to trust my instincts. 100% of the time when I have the feeling this guy is a complete asshole, its because he is. Yes, I've ignored myself and made mistakes, but I've learned from them, and now I can have a good laugh. We are laughing at the Dmitrys - hopefully we can learn to avoid them.
I'm giving you an opportunity to have a little laugh: Click here by 3 o'clock.
P.S - Thanks to my friend KC that gave a book called Date Like a Man by Myreah Moore "Diva of Dating". Never read the whole thing but the chapter on red flags, which I found on point.
I hate to be preachy, but please please please RESPECT YOURSELF. We all learn the hard way to do this. All of us will kiss a couple of frogs (okay, maybe more that a couple) before we find a prince, but learn when to exit.
You should never tolerate a man that does not treat you with respect. Here's a list of Red Flags Every Girl Should Not Ignore:
- Excessive questioning with a jealous undertone - See it as a sign of possessiveness.
- Tardiness - Is he always late? changes plans last minute?
- Needs to be in control - does he listen to you? does he ignore your requests?
- Rudeness - is he rude to service staff? is he respectful towards everyone?
- Alcohol/Drug Abuse - Does he need to get drunk to have fun? All.The.Time?
- Unwanted Sexual Advances - a man should know that no means NO.
-Wandering Eyes - Is he mentally and physically with you?
See a red flag? Drop it like its hot. I've learned (the hard way) to trust my instincts. 100% of the time when I have the feeling this guy is a complete asshole, its because he is. Yes, I've ignored myself and made mistakes, but I've learned from them, and now I can have a good laugh. We are laughing at the Dmitrys - hopefully we can learn to avoid them.
I'm giving you an opportunity to have a little laugh: Click here by 3 o'clock.
P.S - Thanks to my friend KC that gave a book called Date Like a Man by Myreah Moore "Diva of Dating". Never read the whole thing but the chapter on red flags, which I found on point.
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