What's Eating You?

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One of the hardest things about being a single person (in the city or elsewhere) is, hands down, eating. No, no, I'm not going to excuse my eating habits but ...okay! I am excusing my eating habits. But really, go to the super market. Super markets are not single people friendly. The inexpensive items are too big, the small ones twice the price. So it all comes down to this conundrum: Do I buy cheap and let half of the food rot? or do I pay twice as much because I'm single? If you pick option #1 you will end up eating the same thing every-single-day for a week. I don't know about you, but this Toronto Girl loves variety.

This is where the devil comes in: Take out. In cute packaging. Oh dear, I go through months where I don't do groceries, I just eat out. Then my pants don't fit.
So now I am at the stage where my pants are not fitting and tunics and leggings have become my uniform. I am looking at my take-out bills and after doing the math I have realized that buying the expensive single-people-items will save me about $50 a month. Not a number you laugh at.

After this epiphany I called by aunt. A food connoisseur and fabulous single home-maker. Here are a few tips she shared:

- Buy organic produce - it usually comes in smaller quantities and its good for you. Pricey? yes, but as the saying goes "pay now or pay more later"

- Buy grains (organic) in big quantities - grains don't perish as quickly so, say, a bag of brown rice will last you a month, provided you store it well

-Read your food fliers and see what's on sale. We do this with clothing too right? But also know why it is on sale! The expiry date tomorrow?

- Get your organic meat at the butcher (where its sold by weight and you can control the amount you buy) and don't get a lot, you should not be eating meat every single day anyways

- Have friends or roommates with a similar passion for good food and saving money? take a field trip to the farmers market every once in a while. Buy organic fruits and veggies, and at the end of the day divide and conquer. Split the goods and the bill

- Support local farmers buy organic. Knowing you are doing something good for the environment, the local economy and yourself will help you keep motivated

- Cook on Sunday afternoons/evenings. Perfect way to get ready for the week ahead: by taking care of yourself first. Store meals in glass containers. Prepare salad but don't put in any dressing until you're about to eat it.

So, it is my hope that the following tips will help be become a domestic goddess , a savings queen and help me fit into my pants again.

RESOURCES:
What is Organic
List of Organic Farmers Markets in Toronto
Tips for Cooking for One
The Healthy Butcher - Organic Meat

Do you have any tips on eating well in a budget? Do tell!

MONDAY NOTE

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My friend sent me this e-mail. I found it inspiring. I hope it inspires you too.
Happy Monday, Go out there and kick some ass!!!

An Excerpt from The Achemist: The Introduction

Whenever we do something that fills us with enthusiasm, we are following our legend. However, we don’t all have the courage to confront our own dream.

Why?

There are four obstacles. First: we are told from childhood onward that everything we want to do is impossible. We grow up with this idea, and as the years accumulate, so too do the layers of prejudice, fear, and guilt. There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But it’s still there.

If we have the courage to disinter dream, we are then faced by the second obstacle: love. We know what we want to do, but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream. We do not realize that love is just a further impetus, not something that will prevent us going forward. We do not realize that those who genuinely wish us well want us to be happy and are prepared to accompany us on that journey.

Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus, we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path. We who fight for our dream suffer far more when it doesn’t work out, because we cannot fall back on the old excuse: “Oh, well, I didn’t really want it anyway.” We do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of the personal calling is no easier than any other path, except that our whole heart is in this journey. Then, we warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the Universe is conspiring in our favor, even though we may not understand how.


Paulo Coelho - The Alchemist
November 2002

P.S - This book is next on my list. I was told it would change my life...

Dmitry the Douche Bag

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I am sure you all have heard the hilarious v-mail messages that this guy left on a girl's answering machine. Sure it is hilarious, I had a good laugh about it, we all did. But I have to admit, its also really scary. Its really scary to think that there are actually men out there with zero respect towards women. What makes is even more scary? there's women out there willing to take it!!
I hate to be preachy, but please please please RESPECT YOURSELF. We all learn the hard way to do this. All of us will kiss a couple of frogs (okay, maybe more that a couple) before we find a prince, but learn when to exit.

You should never tolerate a man that does not treat you with respect. Here's a list of Red Flags Every Girl Should Not Ignore:

- Excessive questioning with a jealous undertone - See it as a sign of possessiveness.
- Tardiness - Is he always late? changes plans last minute?
- Needs to be in control - does he listen to you? does he ignore your requests?
- Rudeness - is he rude to service staff? is he respectful towards everyone?
- Alcohol/Drug Abuse - Does he need to get drunk to have fun? All.The.Time?
- Unwanted Sexual Advances - a man should know that no means NO.
-Wandering Eyes - Is he mentally and physically with you?

See a red flag? Drop it like its hot. I've learned (the hard way) to trust my instincts. 100% of the time when I have the feeling this guy is a complete asshole, its because he is. Yes, I've ignored myself and made mistakes, but I've learned from them, and now I can have a good laugh. We are laughing at the Dmitrys - hopefully we can learn to avoid them.


I'm giving you an opportunity to have a little laugh: Click here by 3 o'clock.

P.S - Thanks to my friend KC that gave a book called Date Like a Man by Myreah Moore "Diva of Dating". Never read the whole thing but the chapter on red flags, which I found on point.

My favorite thing about Toronto is it's crazy people. And there's quite a few:
Improv In Toronto is a group of people that pull out the craziest pranks. Their mission is to shake up the daily lives of Torontonians, "In the process we bring excitement to otherwise unexciting locales and give strangers a story they can tell for the rest of their lives." and let me tell you, they have my attention!
On Sunday January 10th an army of pantless riders took over the TTC for the 3rd year in a row. Every rider was assigned a stop and when they got there they had to take their pants off and put them in their knapsacks and act as if nothing was unusual. Can you imagine being in the subway and having the person sitting beside you take their pants off? What would you do? I would have certainly liked to be there! Would I take my pants off? Probably not... but I would have enjoyed the shock and laughter this produced.

Click here to watch the video and check out some pics. Maybe this is something you'd like participate in next year...

What do you think?!? Opinions et al are more than welcome! Leave a comment :)

One Week Ago

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One week ago, a lot of people lost food and water supplies.
One week ago, a lot of people lost their loved ones.
One week ago, a lot of people lost their homes.

It would be impossible for me to keep on writing and not acknowledge this. So I've added a little link on the upper right side of the screen where you can make donations to the Red Cross. Canada has already donated more that $40 million dollars.

If you are a timmy-texter, here's how you can donate.

To make a text donation in Canada:

Text the word "Haiti" to 30333 to donate $5 to Plan Canada
Text the word "Hope" or "Monde" to 45678 to donate $5 to World Vision Canada
Text the word "CAHAITI" to 20222 to donate $5 to the Clinton Giustra Sustainable Growth Initiative
Text the word "Haiti" to 45678 to the Salvation Army in Canada
Text the word "Haiti" to 25383 to donate $5 to the International Rescue Committee.

Happy Tuesday :)
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All By Myself

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I might do many things, all by myself.
How very dangerous.

I personally have never understood why being single is such a bad thing. Mind you, I'm twenty-five, I have two jobs, go to school, have a lovely family and friends and a list of extra-curriculars that keeps me fairly busy. I guess I've never had a chance to ponder on being single . However, I've always made it mandatory for me to spend quality alone time. Yes, I've been to the movies by myself, dinned alone, shopped alone, gone to a concert alone, attended a summer festival alone, even travelled alone. I had so much fun doing it, sometimes I think it will be hard sharing these things with someone else.
I think spending quality time with yourself is so important. Its so empowering to know that you don't need anyone to be happy and that you can make yourself happy. Getting to know yourself can be fascinating and sometimes you just need to be alone with your thoughts.

I found this lovely little blog post on dinning alone. I know exactly what Ellie (the author) means.

Decisions, Decisions

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Today I was reminded in a rather rude way of my decision to quit dance. Was it a good one or did I make a mistake? It was a decision that I had been making for quite a while and it was not an abrupt one. Anyways, I am not trying to justify my choices. It’s really not the point. The point is that there will come a time when you need to change gears and decide where your life is headed.



I decided that I want to pursue higher education, not to get rich, but because after 25 years I’ve found my talents and strengths. Now I am finally ready, mentally, to take the steps I need to take in order to develop them. I’m at a point in my life where I know what I am capable of and I want to live up to my potential. It wasn’t an easy decision. There is nothing more terrifying than abandoning the familiar and jumping off to the unknown, hoping your parachute will open. Regardless, I don’t regret anything, and although it’s tough to stomach the rude comments, I always rest assured in the fact that I know what I am doing and that those who love me are standing right behind me to catch me in case the parachute fails.


If you are struggling to make a decision I found the following tools really helpful:


University of Calgary Decision Making Model - Its targeted towards career decision making, but I think it can be applied to anything.


Time-Management.com Decision Making Skills - Highlights 8 steps or things to consider when making a decision.



P.S - I will always, always love to dance.

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